"So, What Are You Into?"

Gay hookup culture sure does involve a lot of us asking each other about our interests. For a question we ask ourselves so often, we've hardly seemed to have given it much thought beyond the surface. We're keeping it quick and efficient: tops, twinks, cock size —  the well-trodden topics and archetypes that make for a pretty superficial discourse about what should be the wonderfully deep topic of guys fucking guys. We can take it deeper There's so much more detail behind what gets us off that goes unnoticed and uncelebrated. For example, tops: why do you like topping? Is it the physical sensation? For you, is it that feeling of a nice, tight ass that gets you off? Or could it be that basic, animal satisfaction that just comes from the act of fucking another guy? You like gripping him and thrusting and bucking. You like the thought of using him, filling him, taking him. It could be the idea of him being at his most very vulnerable. For some that's thrilling... empowering...